[izuna_Reborn]

Heres what i dont get... people always think they know a person and say they are freinds.....then they end up going and insulting you behind your back why do they do that anyways i mean why not say it to someones face i mean if they say it behind someones back i mean thats just making the other person look bad why do they do that to begin with....It is a nervracking situation..

[Shino]

... would the answer that people succumb to the norms of the group they're with be a good enough answer?

What I mean is that if in one group, everyone makes fun of others, to fit in wth that group, you'll do what they do so you can fit it. Even if that means making fun of a friend behind their back.

[izuna_Reborn]

that is a reasonable answer shino glad to have your responce

[Amaterasu]

I never was a very social person so I don't give a hoot. If their gonna insult me behind my back I could care less about them, doesn't bother me.

[SilentNovA]

yea that's pretty annoying

but to tell you the truth, even if my friends talk bad about me behind my backs, i don't even care about that...it's when they actually say it right in front of my face that will get me irritated

[omega 5000]

Well...
if they talk behind my back, I wouldn't really care :/
But say it in ma face, I am gonna say something back to make you look back, so not everyone messes with me that much, although some do :/

But yeah, if you want a answer, act like you don't care :/

[Shino]

Well, it seems people don't care what's said behind there backs, so far.

Which leads me to ask this question:

Would you rather be terribly insulted behind your back then find out, or directly to your face?

I mean, when people talk about you behind your back, you usually don't know so by default, in a way, you don't care because you don't know. But if it was brought to your attention that someone was talking trash about you, and they had been for some time, would that be worse than if they said the same thing right to your face?

[Nat9narutolover]

Ya it's pretty annoying. Happens to me a lot. If some peple want to talk behind my back, that not fine! If they talk behind my back then why not talk to me face to face! They are still talking about me!!! Maybe I would understand more talking face to face!!! Anyway, whatever. People like that are just trash! They say they are your friends but do you really believe them?

[Akatsuki~FTW]

I'd rather be terribly insulted to my face, then I could think of a witty comeback xD

[Knightmare Zero]

You should know this..
The answer is: People are like that and always will be...
Get used to it...